6 toxic thoughts, from which stands to get rid

When once again disappointed in men, has not yet been decided to open a business, you dream about, or to leave the unloved work, it is difficult to admit that all the causes of your unhappiness in your head. You restrain only their own thoughts that you might not even notice. Here are some of the harmful plants that prevent us from living.

1. "It's too late to start all over again,"

When you wake up tomorrow morning, try to sit down sharply. The head of the coffin is not cracked? Very well, then, nothing is too late.

The idea that the right moment has missed - brain trap, which does not want to let you out of your comfort zone. To change profession, when the hands of hard-won diploma and labor - five years' experience; start traveling after birth; find love after two failed marriages - it's not only real, but in fact is not so difficult as it's in your head.

The right moment will come when you make up your mind. All your dreams must be a plan of what you want from life, without specifying the age at which they should be implemented. Saying, "I should have done this before," you limit yourself for no reason.

2. "I can change that person"

Wait, that others will change their personality to be more appropriate to you - at least presumptuous. To avoid becoming a victim of this error, it is recognized that either you take the habits and character of another person, or it does not suit you. We all improved and me, but do you need it for themselves and not to conform to someone else's expectations. Leave the role of the teacher, savior, motivator, while others will disappoint you much less. People do not change, priorities change.

3. "For a complete happiness lacks relationship"

Even if a love relationship for you in priority, we should not think of them as a way to fix my life. "If I was a kid, my mood would be better" - so you have to shift the responsibility for their condition to a hypothetical partner.

It is difficult to estimate the moment in which you are now, when your thoughts are occupied only by where you could be. There are many things which should instead strive relations.

4. "The whole world is against me"

The Big Bang, the expansion of the universe, the Earth and the emergence of 4, 5 billion years of evolution - all only so as to ruin your life? We do not think so.

In a life full of injustice: the exam is filled up, though taught all night; colleague raised, and you do not have; man changed, and in fact you even learned to cook. All this is frustrating, but you can choose - to be a fighter or be a target.

Realize that life is not specifically throws you trouble. This will help to better cope with the challenges and appreciate the lessons they presented.

5. "The right solution is only one"

Another toxic misleading: there is only one correct way to achieve the goal. No higher education - forget about success, I had a child - say goodbye to the career. Life is full of choices. Look for the one that suits you, and not one that is followed by all.

6. "I wasted time,"

If an event or a person did not meet your expectations, it does not mean that it was all in vain. Thoughts that life is only one, frighten, but to hold it perfectly, no one will. Learn to treat everything that happens, both the experience and use it for self.

Ask questions, "What am I doing here?" And "What is the benefit it will bring me in the future?" Is important, but to blame themselves for what has been done does not make sense.

Do you often catch yourself thinking from our list?