Enjoy life while all around get married and have children

If you're somewhere in twenty, then surely you have at least once been at the wedding of his former classmates / fellow student, cute tots laykala photos of your girlfriend or that girl from the parallel that, oh, my God, the same age as yours. At such moments, you begin to think, and did not let a crack whether your life and if everything went wrong. Before you start to get depressed, we will tell you what you can and definitely should do while all around are married and have children.

1. Travel

Sooner or later in everyone's life there comes a time when travel is not possible. And if this is not possible because of the family - it was bad. Despite the fact that traveling with a child perhaps, you are unlikely to be so much free time, money and, of course, the enthusiasm to climb mountains, wander through abandoned castles or snorkelling when the hands will be a little child that requires attention and care. Then the child goes to school, and you have to see to it that he managed to do everything on time, and the most to think about how to make up for lost time at work and home. So if your life has not rung a bell happy, when to eat, whom to marry and to whom to give birth to a few happy tots, go on a trip and do not regret the money.

2. Walk late

Party - this is a great pastime, especially in the 20 years when everything is saturated with a romantic sense of the unpredictability of fate. Regardless of whether the turbulent years have passed your college life, going to parties and hang out - it's always fun and interesting. But if you're with a partner, it brings the fun is not as fun. Of course, do everything together - it's great, but if you come alone, you will have to think for two, constantly check whether your partner is happy, if he, if he wanted to get away fun. A child is still difficult, because you have to decide, not on what kind of party to come, and if you can, in principle, to leave the house. You will need to find someone who will keep track of your child, and to the party you're always going to think if everything he was OK, and it is unlikely it will be possible to stay late or come home in the morning, barely dragging his studs and wrinkled dress. Enjoy this freedom until it's your time.

3. Take care of the beauty of the

All the girls from time to time want to relax for a typically female activity like visiting a beauty salon, or at least a pair of home cosmetic procedures. As long as you are free, you can afford it at any time, and look bad - it means to confess that you are too lazy to work, or has been a hard week. With children every week becomes difficult. Force children to sit quietly while you're doing yourself a pedicure - a real adventure where you are unlikely to come out the winner, and if they go out, the forces on spa treatments, most likely will not. So it takes its beauty, while others are engaged in changing diapers.

4. The use of the fitness club

Fitness and sports - a perfect example of the time spent for the benefit of themselves. Go to a fitness club a couple can be used only if your schedules coincide, or are you willing to wait for each arc. And in this case, you still can not relax, knowing that he is waiting for you and quietly furious. If you are waiting for the children, then there is no sense of relaxation and talking. Yes, in fitness clubs often have children's rooms, where you can leave your children to play while you conquer the treadmill or trying to do the splits. But that time is always limited, so you will most likely begin to rush, especially when you hear how your child is roaring behind the wall. If you are not yet married and has contributed to the development of our society, do sports without stress and hurry.

5. Be spontaneous

The spontaneity - it's great. You invited to the party at the last moment, an old friend wants to go for tea and as a result buy you a margarita, quickly organized a trip out of town or just a shopping trip and unplanned expenditure. All it requires from you a certain freedom, and such spontaneity is not so easy to give in, because with the advent of children every exit from the house will have to plan or to think at least for an hour, who will sit with the children, how much you will manage the luxury and, of course the "how is my baby here without me?".

6. Turn to career

Build a family you need when you are firmly standing on their feet and can afford to leave things for a family. But if you're a kid, you have to leave them for a long time. This is fine if you're ready and made a deliberate choice, but if not, then sooner or later you may regret that dedicated itself to family life too soon, and now to conquer the career peaks too late.

If you are not yet married, and still sad from the fact that all your friends have already given birth or are about to give birth, then relax and be engaged in their careers. Making money, experience and respect in the professional environment, can not be compared with the education of children, but in the future, when the time is right, you say thank you for myself that did not go on about the society.

7. fulfill the dream of his life

With the dream of your life as well as career. The sooner you do something like this for a long time wanted to, the more experience you get, then to pass it on to children. And if you sacrifice your desires for the sake of marriage and family, which allegedly have been in all of your former classmates, you will be all my life to feel this damn gestalt that will be reflected in your children, and on the relationship with her husband. Do not waste time, live for yourself, until you are ready to live for someone else.

8. Expand the circle of friends

Marriage and family life - not a dungeon, where you will sit all day one, but, in any case, time and energy on something to socialize and make new and interesting friends, will be much less. You'll get used to be with the family, sometimes together with friends, once again, the family and close relatives. Of course, all this can be changed if desired. But if you're still free of family ties and children, Spend the time out to gain the confidence of an increasing number of interesting and nice people.

9. cultivators

So little time, and it is the only invaluable resource we possess. Instead of falling into depression over the loneliness, the lack of children and still a heap of socially significant advances, loans, self-improvement. Get another education, to change jobs, try to do what has never been involved before, learn new hobbies, study useful science dealing with the physical and spiritual development. It does not matter how long you will be the status of "wife" or "mother", and how good you are as a person, as a woman. Can you understand the intricacies of human relationships to be the perfect wife, can you share something useful, if there is enough confidence in myself to keep her husband and raise children and to show that you are worthy of happiness and good relationships. First, you need to engage in self-development, or whatever you're doing, you will always feel that something is missing. And if not, then it will feel your relatives.