50 things you should be doing every woman

To be a real woman, not good enough to cook or wear pretty dresses attracts the eyes of men. Very little of what a woman can be good in appearance - it is necessary to cultivate a personality. In today's world, women have achieved a lot and continue to fight for their rights by requiring men makeovers throughout. This means that women need to strive to be better, to learn how to treat themselves and others. We've put together 50 important things that women should do or learn to do in order to be complete, happier, and more importantly, to justify their gender.

Remember about health and healthy habits.

Monitor health - it means not only to visit the doctor, but also the right to organize the care of themselves. Hair, skin, nutrition, sport, suitable daily routine - all this is very important to be healthy, cheerful and always attractive.

to dress stylish, but modest, drawing attention to his person, and not to the body.

Clothing - this is not all. You can look sexy, but never really learn how to attract people.

To dress to emphasize their individuality and not to please others.

To remember basic wardrobe: a little black dress and pearls, classic clutch and, of course, comfortable shoes.

These things never go out of fashion and, most importantly, do not let you down, especially if shopping is no time.

Write thank-you cards. This tradition is worth to revive it as filled with romance and shows your level of education. If someone was kind to you or given a great gift, write a few good words in response.

to be involved in things that stimulate professional growth. To succeed in an existing career, you need to keep moving forward. And if you're just starting out, the closer you'll be to their professional field, the faster will succeed.

To be able to pay for bills and take care of their independence.

Do not rely on assistance to the partner and not passed on to him the responsibility for what you can do on your own. That is the whole point of independence. Whatever happens, you will be able to take care of the important things of life.

have an opinion. Whatever you discuss with your friends, or your surroundings, keep their views on a variety of topics: politics, society, culture. And remember, when and how best to express their opinion.

Have the values ​​and beliefs and live by them.

Not worth it pointless to wander through the field of life, then nailed to one, then to another view, or blindly follow the "idols". Learn to understand yourself and what it is you are guided by committing a certain action.

Learn something new and benefit from this advantage.

Acquire new knowledge is always interesting, but in the modern world to get a dose of joy is no longer enough. It is necessary to benefit from everything that you do, especially if you are investing in yourself.

to abandon the habit of drinking alcohol or to know when to stop.

Despite the fact that alcohol - this is something from which it would be necessary to refuse absolutely, we do not seem quite so hypocrites. There are many occasions in which it would be pertinent to use one or another alcoholic beverage. But drink for fun and lose control over their actions, memory, and security - is another matter. Learn to be given to bad habits, without losing face.

Learn how to walk in high heels, but if uncomfortable to wear low-heeled shoes or flat shoes, as there is nothing attractive in a woman, barely shambling in beautiful shoes.

Being a lady, treat yourself like a lady, and allow others to treat you the same way.

If you know what you are worth, and believe in it, then you are sure to find what you need. But asking a lot, it is necessary to raise a no less.

Do not trust their personal affairs and thoughts all in a row. Learn how to understand people and think about what you say.

Sometimes silence - the wisest thing you can do. It brings a sense of calm and allow time for the necessary internal review. Do not rush to share the secret, especially if you did not know your companion.

Learning to debate with dignity and elegance. Always remain calm, because there are people with whom you disagree, but do not allow emotions to win respect of his companion and his right to his point of view.

Use social networks for practical purposes and to monitor their reputation. Sometimes the information should remain private, especially if it is not present you in a positive light.

to stop being afraid to admit their mistakes and need to ask for help, even if assistance is needed from a man.

To learn manners call.

In today's world we have so many write and send, that the elementary culture of a telephone conversation seems to us something that has long gone into oblivion. But this is not the case. Be stylish in everything and everywhere.

Always be friendly and polite. Only good manners will be able to create a good impression.

define their beliefs and did not allow anyone to change them without your desire.

Do not let gender stereotypes determine personality, but do not deny the existence of these concepts, blindly follow the "fashion".

To accept defeat with dignity.

Even if you make a mistake or have been rejected, find the strength to accept this fact, to experience negative emotions and move on. Any failure carries a lesson of how soon you will make it, the easier it will be to climb. But the failures are not always eager to knock you off your feet, sometimes, you just shrug and let it go.

self-improvement at any stage of life and cultivate a unique personality.

Being a woman who needs a man, not a woman who needs a man.

To be a wife, lover girl, a good housewife, wanting to make a man's life pleasant and sweet - a great desire. But however you do not need a man, you must be self-sufficient. Only then will your aspirations will encourage a partner to care and love for you as an individual.

To understand its significance, and never settle for less than you deserve.

If you think that you are not too good for something, or happiness should not happen to you, for whatever reason, then it will not happen. You will always get just what you're fighting for.

Next posture, gait and the way you sit and zhestikuliruete.

This lady should be flawless in everything, but the way it feels and behaves in space - one of the most important skills. Engage them, and then let your body float.

Stop understate their standards.

If next to you people who think you are too "difficult", "very", and so on, it does not mean you have to become easier, which means that it is time to move away from these people.

Find your passion and pursue it without fear, doubt and insecurity.

break the rules, if necessary, but always understand what you are doing and be responsible.

Do not gossip. Gossip anyone not inspire confidence. Keep an eye on our reputation and refrain from senseless chatter, especially if you are not fully confident in the objectivity of their judgments.

Learn to value yourself not for the fact that you are someone's girlfriend or wife, but for the fact that you are self-sufficient person. Partner really says a lot about you and your life choices, but it does not define who you are and who you will become, if it would not be there.

Do not start to learn something just because it is popular or prestigious, especially under the influence of others.

I do not deny the existence of a different view of things, especially if it differs from yours.

Remember that everything has its time and place and to act according to this wisdom.

More laugh, smile and learn to enjoy life without any particular reason, and it is better to find them.

To appreciate the real beauty, to build it and to find even in the most simple.

Happiness depends on you, on how you are able to be happy. It does not need to have something that others do not. The main thing - do not cease to look for.

Stop being a victim and to strive for their own part.

Give up and plead resentful and miserable - it's hard emotionally, but in fact, it is the simplest thing you can do. But the fight for their happiness and to overcome the troubles can not everyone.

to stop being afraid to put their own interests above the interests of the other.

Healthy ego is useful, it shows that you are good about yourself. And the only person who knows how to take care of themselves, can take care of others.

stopped hiding their ambitions. Build a career and achieve success - is that only emphasize your strength and confidence, and so, too, does not make you less feminine.

Respect the women around you.

Misogyny comes not only from men but also from women, and in this case, the hatred and contempt for more sophisticated, less obvious, but the most destructive. Keep women who ask for help, and respect of those around you, and drag for those who admire.

Stop ashamed of what career you chose to family life. If you really want it, do it, do not envy, and not considering himself a "weak." Few people can really be a good wife and mother, it is an art.

Do not manipulate people and not allow others to manipulate you.

Manipulation - is less obvious, but the most popular form of violence against the person. Learn how to achieve its not by manipulation, but by rationality and defend his innocence. Also, do not let others use you for their own purposes, let it be even close and dear to your relationship.

Learn to self-motivate yourself at any age and situation in life and be responsible for his state of mind.

to be independent and stand up for their financial interests.

to stop being afraid to refuse.

Sometimes saying no is much better than to agree to bend or adjust to the person or the circumstances.

Stop shy of their femininity.

Be sexy, modest, natural, luxury, masculine, or infantile. Your identity defines you, not your body.

To fight for the rights of other women. Women need the support of women. If you do not know enough about equality, feminism and the challenges and achievements of other women, start to explore these questions.

Do not allow men to feel that you mean less than they.

Men can be strong, weak, can give all women, or need them. But solving the problem, do not let the male voice to drown your. This is not a competition, it's self-esteem.

Being these women, what would you like to see his daughters, and his sons want to find a wife.

Learning to live in the moment, but do not forget about the future. Life seems too confusing sometimes, and to understand where to go, it is very difficult in 18 years. Learn to go with the flow, but remember that you must strive to control their lives and their happiness.

Respect yourself.

Love yourself, raduyte yourself, ask what you think is right from ourselves and from others. Do not stay where you are not welcome and where you feel bad. Do not allow others to treat yourself properly, but the main thing - do not start to treat yourself badly.