9 things that you would not do if I was smarter

To live happily is much easier than it seems, is enough to have brains. If you were smart, you would not have admitted the fact that you live by someone else's rules and sacrifice his dreams. Self-pity - it is the way to despondency and weakness. Here are some important things that you would not do if I was not stupid.

1. I would not let anyone limit your joy

It is foolish to compare themselves with others and let it rob you of happiness moments. Others did not fare better, you just do not know how to be happy and do not want to do anything to your life better. Every time you laugh, you allow someone to stop the laughter his sarcastic commentary. You let others dictate to you where to have fun and when to be sad. As long as you do not take your life and your emotions under its own control, and you will remain foolishly unhappy.

2. Do not forget to become a left and right

Emotionally educated people know how to forgive and do it quickly, but that does not mean that they forget everything. Forgiveness means that you release negative emotions and choose move on. And if you prefer to forget what you did bad, and do not make any valuable lessons, then you're just stupid. Forgiveness and humility - a sign of wisdom, but not all deserve a second chance and even more so your blind faith.

3. Do not be lost in battles

Smart people know how to analyze their emotions and the world around them. We are faced with stress every day, and sometimes it is necessary to accept defeat, to break forward. If you blindly go to the risk and keep stoically endure beatings circumstances, you're stupid, it chose the battle, in which you can not win.

The next time you prepare the ground and come out to fight with an army of soldiers behind him - in other words, when it is appropriate for your triumph of time and place.

4. Would not put excellence at the heart of

Wise people seek to success and look up to the top, but do not put the attainment of perfection as their goal, because they know that it does not exist. As long as you're upset over nothing and hate herself in the mirror, the error made in the life and problems at work, you'll never be better. If you're not stupid, you should know that the main thing - to be better than himself yesterday, and not perfect.

5. I would not live past

Nothing is more regressive than to live in the ruins of their own past. They need to just contemplate and to bear the necessary lessons, go back to real life and work on the result. Only forward movement allowed to appear to humanity, science and progress. You're a man - the crown of nature, enough to remember what you ate yesterday, how many times have parted with the guys and what you said at the party. This is not the level of the top echelon of evolution.

6. I would not give in to difficulties

So, on what you focus your attention, affects your mood. Remember that mentality determines being, which means that the longer you're afraid of the difficulties and the more pasuesh of liability, the unhappier you become and the more insignificant. Smart people know how to find a way out of the situation and have the patience to arrive at the goal of a long road, if need be, but fools are afraid of everything and sit in the shade, waiting for the sun comes out. Do not think about the problems start coming up with solutions, and life will be easier, and you - wiser.

7. Do not be able to communicate with those who make you unhappy

Not only that you yourself own worst enemy, so you still communicate with someone who constantly makes you doubt yourself, bring to the tantrums, or simply does not enjoy what you're doing. As long as you will tolerate them and listen, you will be sad, miserable and stupid.

If you do not like the smell of smoke, if you stand next to the smoker and inhale it without any desire? No intelligent man will depart. Just with negative people - waste away until you become one of them.

8. Do not hold a grudge to

If the question of a second chance is not, but it makes no sense to dwell on their offense and revel in self-pity. Bad things happen to good people, there are all the negative characters, but only a complete idiot would ever suffer the insult. If a person you really appreciate, it is worthy to forgive him, and if his goal was to make you feel bad, then, resenting it as long as possible, you only prove that you just like that break.

9. I would not agree on everything in succession

The word "yes" is the power and energy, but "no" - a very special magic that repels you from all unnecessary and opens the way to new opportunities. If you do not agree on everything, even when I really did not want it, he would not have suffered from frustration, low self-esteem, and the fact that you can not control your own life. If you continue in the same vein, people will think you are a trouble-free rag. At the same time it makes no sense to abandon permanently, just to pass a strong and independent. Say "yes" only if you want something.