How to ensure their safety on a date

What if he does not like you expected? What if he's a maniac? The first meeting with a stranger is always unsettling and disturbing. There is nothing worse, if your fear is justified, and the guy is really suspicious - from his gaze pierces you shiver. You should be able to protect themselves from danger, if something goes wrong. Here are some tips that can help you protect yourself.

Do not call your full name

We strongly recommend that you use a separate account on a dating site so fans could not find you on other social networks. In the age of neural networks, of course, it is difficult to remain unrecognized if delishsya your photos, but still some of the guys annoying it can be stopped. Too much personal data - and the opportunity to write to you a loan, and even unnecessary to prove an interest in your work. For example, if you videobloger, a guy can ask for mentioning it in a new video, and if you are an employee of the police - to restore rights.

occurs in an institution in another area

Yes, I would like to go far for a meeting with a person from the application. But what if your new guy at the meeting would be unpleasant and intrusive man? You do not want to lose your favorite bar in the neighborhood, if he would go there all the time, and you'll meet? Suggest to visit the place where you have not been. At the same time you get a new good impression.

Make sure to tell someone where to go

Write her best friend a message that will be in a particular place on a Friday night. The old way of reassurance, but still very effective. Be sure to agree on a "code word" to call each other if you need to call for backup.

Prepare in advance justification

If you suddenly say that you have a stomach ache, you need to immediately go home to work, then it will look suspicious. Plan your call from a friend who urgently need help. If your friends also use the application to Me, surely they have some good ideas.

Take it with a certain amount of money

You certainly would not want to get into a situation, when the waiter brings you a bill, and it turns out that the man either forgot the purse at home, either intentionally offers to split the cost, but you have only 200 rubles in his pocket, and those in the taxi. Take it with a little bit of money, so that the robbers are not tempted, do not use a credit card and you can order as much food as you can do in case of what to pay itself, and no morsel more.

Do not let yourself escort home

The Russian side streets are still afraid to walk at night, and sometimes it seems quite natural desire to be asked to carry out home. If you do not want to be the guy you met a few hours ago, learned your place of residence and tried to get back to your apartment, you think in advance how you will get home.

Do not trust the first meeting

All this is doing, if he makes a good first impression, then you have to climb up with the idea of ​​how much you can do with your shared future. Do not be deceived. And a high probability that it is a strange man. How funny would it themselves either kept in strangers can be full of pitfalls.

Do not feel guilty for having decided to play it safe

It is absolutely normal - away from a date just because you do not like his height and beard. If you feel compelled to and stay for an hour just for the fact that you think that's so rude to throw it - you do only worse. It is quite normal to inform people that you feel are not safe.

Some bars abroad began to hang signs in the female toilets of the existence of a cocktail "Angelic blow." In fact, it is a code phrase, signaling that the visitor needs help. If you ask clear, the barman escort you to your car. If the ice - then the barman will call a taxi for you, and sit down in it. And if with lime, then call the police. Hopefully, this idea was picked up in our country.