7 mistakes in etiquette that you make

Each of us had noticed that she did not know for what to take first plug or cut the cake, and sometimes even interrupt the speaker. But we are well aware of the difference between respect and rudeness - perhaps this is enough? Alas, the etiquette experts say that you need to keep track of a large number of situations and actions.

1. You do not give thanks after meeting

One of the first things they teach the children - it is not to forget to say the magic words - "please" and "thank you." According to Jody R. Smith, a consultant Mannersmith Etiquette Consulting, simple words may be inadequate, and should not even send a card. Knowing the work of the Russian Post, I would strongly not count on it.

Planning for major events - a lot of work. Do not forget to say thanks to the owners before to say goodbye, and to call them back the next day to thank for a great evening. Incidentally, other than gratitude is even a slight PR in social networks - said in his Instagram, how well you had a great time!

2. ignore their responsibilities as a guest

If you go to someone's house, you have to plan something, not to be rude. There is no more blatant way to show their bad side, but to be a rude guest. You can not come with empty hands! When planning the way, do not forget to turn in a shop to buy wine, treats or flowers. Of course, you can call in advance and ask if there was anything else at the table is required.

3. Sit not there

Observe etiquette is necessary and in the house where you were invited. When it comes time to sit down, be sure to ask where you belong. Maybe the owners prepare you a particular seat, it was convenient to talk to you, or simply do not want to place at the head went to someone else. Maybe your neighbor has to be a certain person with whom you want to keep!

4. Your toast does not cling to the quick

Toast - a tradition of many cultures. After all, who does not like a good excuse to drink? While the owner did not tell his toast, you can not even touch the wine.

If the queue is about to come to you, think over his speech. There is nothing worse than insincere verses from the Internet. Put all the love the audience in his words and be sure to give thanks for the meal.

5. You do not know what to do with a napkin

This question arises more often than "How to eat chicken?". When people dine in the restaurant, they usually leave the cutlery wrapped in a napkin. However, etiquette knife and fork to put on a plate for bread and other snacks, and a napkin - to its knees.

Until you're done there, napkin should lie. If you want to go from the table - leave it on the chair. When you finish dinner, put the napkin on the left of the plate.

6. Do not you realize how you eat

Each of us has their own needs for food and a lot of special preferences. If you are a guest, who was invited to dinner, then eat whatever is served, if you do not have allergies. You can pretend to eat, stirring the food on the plate. If the owners asked why the food in your plate almost untouched, say that you leave room for dessert.

In general, the approach can be summarized in the fact that you should apply quite a bit of food. Eat small pieces and do not hurry.

Do not hesitate to tell the owners in advance that you're allergic to something, or your diet does not allow to have a particular product. Do not use salt and pepper until then, until you try the food. Perhaps she had the perfect amount of seasoning, and that you only insult the cook.

7. You sit sloppy

The way you sit at the table - a reflection of your respect. Do not put on the table objects that are not part of a meal, such as keys, wallets and, of course, the cell phone. If you want to answer an important call, it is better to apologize and leave the room during a call.