Early exit from the decree

• Early exit from the Decree

Career or family? This question often arises in the minds of modern women. After all, you want to have a nice family, where there will be happiness, children's laughter and joy. But on myself I do not want to give up, there is a desire to realize themselves in their professional activities, become a successful business woman. How to combine family and work?

Very often such questions arise in young mothers, who, due to different circumstances should be used to get out of the decree. Maternity leave lasts for three years. But today, very often there are situations when it is necessary before they are due to return to work. The reasons are many, the most common are: financial problems in the family, the employer's condition, the fear of losing a good job, fear of losing skills.

The first years of a child's life are the most important, because during this period the baby is growing and developing, is formed. He needs to mom was nearby. After all, between a mother and a small child there is an incredibly close relationship. Before you decide, consider carefully weigh all the "pros" and "cons", if your work is worth, and the reasons that push you to make such a move, your parting with the baby. If, nevertheless, the decision is made and the need to go to work before the end of the decree, it is necessary to do everything so as not to injure the baby. If you leave a crumb with a mood "in the soul of a cat scratching", it is no wonder why the kid hard transfers with you separation.

Do not abruptly separate the child from the mother. Decide with whom the child will be at a time when the mother is at work. It is important that the child knew the man. Maybe the Pope will be able to work remotely and look for crumbs.

Grandma - this is the man who is ready to help always. If my grandmother is possible to look after his grandson / granddaughter or even live a period of time with you - this will be the best option.

However, not everything is always so composed, as we would like. Someone does not have parents or grandmother ... old, that he could not take care of and keep up with your baby. Grandmother may live far away ... Then two options - a kindergarten or a nanny.

Nanny

If your financial situation is to hire a nanny who will look for crumbs while you are away - worth a try.

However, it is desirable that this man knew the child (for example, your friend who moonlights as a nanny, a neighbor, a close relative). There are no such people in your neighborhood? Then you have to hire a babysitter. You can use the recommendations of friends and acquaintances, or you can contact the appropriate agency. Remember: you leave the child with a stranger! You must trust this person! Better to hire a nanny on the eve of his return to work and advance. The first time she could come and watch over crumbs when you get home. After all a little get used to the new circumstances, it is possible to leave the child with a babysitter for a longer period of time. Parting with the child should not be harsh.

Kindergarten

Leave this option at the most extreme case, as the baby will be hard to stay at the same time without a mother, and to adapt to the new rules and the circumstances of life. The garden needs to be brought to an hour and a half. In the process of addiction can be increased while visiting a kindergarten. A child needs to know that his mother always come back for him.