"If you're 23, then you to our friend!" A few tips to help you realize that everything in your life is going fine

If you woke up this morning, the day of his 23rd birthday, and suddenly realized that you are in a dead end, behind a failed relationship, in your pocket empty purse, and on the horizon at all there is no goal, then we are sure that you are not alone. Years after the university did not like anyone. We plunge dramatically into the real world with a lot of debt, a meager salary, which is hardly enough to pay the rent for the apartment, quickly passing relations and much more. We are aware of a deep sense of loss of stability, which is actually very necessary to us.

Nothing you do not like, when you're twenty-three, and here you can turn on and your own life. You do not like the most. Yet, we still are drawn, and trying to get out. Most comes enlightenment year later, some know a few simple things fairly quickly, but if you are confused and do not know how to find a way out, then there's your advice a couple who just need you now.

1. You will not be lonely for life

Twenty-three - is the age when most of us are alone. Study at the University of (probably) over. Your professional life (hopefully) only begins. Your plans just do not allow you to somehow diversify his life. You are far from family and friends who know you, and all escheemotsionalno distantsirueshsya from people who at the moment you are surrounded by.

Everything has its time. Give yourself the opportunity to adjust to a new life that does not involve around you a huge number of relatives and close friends. Now your new stage in life. Solitude will not last forever, even if you do so at this point it seems.

2. You do not need to search your dream job now

At this stage of your life is quite normal to work in some not too untwisted office just to somehow pay the bills. It is permissible to spend their free time for additional skills. There are thousands of options on how you will achieve your dream job, but do not humiliate myself constantly, because now you do not work there, wherever you want. Just keep moving forward. Let it be slow, but whatever it was, you still will achieve its goal.

3. At some point in life everyone feels a little lost

Seriously, it is. Every person that you meet in your everyday life, almost one hundred per cent was in the same position as you are now - was lost and did not know what to do next. This is normal. Now is the time when you need some time to choose his life course.

4. You make a mistake and fail

not again

Do you have plenty of time to make mistakes in love, career, goals that you currently outlined, and personal matters. Yes, it is and it will be. You're still so young / young to give up every time the plans were not carried out, and the "love of life" left. Do not be afraid to try something new until you have at that time.

5. You can fall in love with someone new

In most cases, while at university, many of us have had an affair, get into love triangles or discourage Man with a girlfriend. All this ends badly for one of the parties. Your heart is broken, in the soul a gaping hole, and a swarm of thoughts in your head that you will never and no one can love. Believe me, they say to you only emotions. You're hurt and sad, and that is why it happens. Nothing goes unnoticed. But, despite this, you are sure you will love more. You again want to say to someone "I love you" and build a new relationship. The ability to love is not going anywhere, because everything is built into us since birth. So do not hesitate. You're still going to love / loved.

6. You will not be alone with their problems

Support for loved ones of people you always be guaranteed, no matter what you did not get mess. Parents are sure to help both verbally and financially, and friends also did not take long to wait. If you understand that in life there is complete and impenetrable darkness, then you have the lights - it's your home. Do not forget about it. Now you do not have to do everything myself, and to shoulder the huge burden of responsibility. Everything has its time.